For nearly three years, Terence Bevan (Terry) has been attending the Stroke Café in Palmer’s Green. Having recently turned 70, Terry enjoys bowling, going on walks in the morning, and chatting with his friends every Tuesday at the Stroke Café.
Terry worked as a local bus driver until he had a sudden stroke. After receiving an MRI, Terry quickly learned that he had a small tumor on his optic nerve. Due to various treatments, like radiotherapy, Terry’s health was permanently affected, including his speech.
To help with these changes, Terry’s hospital referred him to Attend, where he learned about the Stroke Café. Here, he was able to receive aid with recovery while connecting with other stroke survivors as well.
“It’s amazing people with the same problems,” said Terry, “Everyone’s had a stroke and you have people to talk to. They were understanding. People know what you’ve been through.”
After participating in the Stroke Café’s weekly activities, Terry reflects on his favorite memories. He has shared good moments, good laughs, and good tea with good people. Most recently, Terry enjoyed some chair exercises that were led by a local fitness instructor. Having previously taken up boxing as his hobby, Terry was more than happy to throw out some strong punches during their chair exercise session.
For Terry, the companionship has been just as important as the activities themselves. Whether enjoying pizza as a group, chatting over tea, or spending time with others who truly understand life after a stroke, the Stroke Café has given him a renewed sense of purpose. “They’re very friendly people,” Terry said. “If it wasn’t for the company here, what would I do?” Today, Terry continues to stay active through bowling and looks forward to seeing the friends he has made at the café each week.
